Kids’ Birthday Party Invitation Wording for Ages 1 to 12
Kids’ birthday invitation wording for every age from 1 to 12, with lines for drop-off, pickup, allergies, siblings and gifts.
A kids’ birthday invitation is read by parents, so it has two jobs: to sound fun for the child and to answer every practical question for the adult. Here is wording for each age from 1 to 12, plus ready-made lines for drop-off, pickup, allergies, siblings and gifts.
What parents look for on a kids’ invitation
Before parents reply, they want to know these details. Put them all on the invitation and you will get fewer questions by message.
- Child’s name and age. “Zara is turning 6.”
- Start and end time. Parents plan pickup around the end time, so always include it.
- Address. Add parking or entrance notes for a venue.
- Drop-off or stay. Say whether parents should stay.
- Food and allergies. Say if lunch is served and ask about allergies.
- What to wear or bring. Costumes, swimwear, socks for an indoor play center, a change of clothes.
- How and when to RSVP. A reply-by date about a week before the party.
Wording for ages 1 to 3
Toddler parties are short and the parents stay, so the wording can speak to them directly.
- “Our little bear is turning 1! Join us for cake and play on Saturday, March 14, 10-11:30am, at 12 Elm Street. Parents and siblings welcome.”
- “Oscar is two! Come for a morning of bubbles and snacks on Sunday, May 10, 10am-noon, at Brook Park, by the café. RSVP by May 3.”
- “Three cheers for Isla! Join us for her 3rd birthday on Saturday, July 18, 3-5pm, at our home. Bring a sun hat, we’ll be in the backyard.”
Wording for ages 4 to 6
This is the age of themes. Lead with the theme, then give the details parents need.
- “Roar! Felix is turning 4 and you’re invited to his dinosaur party. Saturday, April 11, 2-4pm, at Hillside Community Center. Dinosaur costumes welcome.”
- “Calling all princesses and knights. Zara is 5! Join us on Sunday, June 7, 11am-1pm, at 8 Cedar Road. Lunch provided.”
- “Blast off with Theo for his 6th birthday! Saturday, September 12, 1-3pm, at Starlight Play Center. Please bring socks. RSVP to Hannah by September 5.”
Wording for ages 7 to 9
Children this age often go to parties without a parent, so make drop-off and pickup clear.
- “Game on! Max is turning 7. Join us for a games party on Saturday, February 21, 2-4pm, at 22 Fern Avenue. Drop-off party. Pickup at 4pm.”
- “Lights, camera, Ruby! Celebrate Ruby’s 8th birthday with a movie and pizza night on Friday, October 16, 5-7:30pm, at our house. Pajamas welcome.”
- “Splash into summer for Leo’s 9th! Pool party on Saturday, July 25, 1-3pm, at Westfield Pool. Bring a swimsuit and towel. An adult must stay for non-swimmers.”
Wording for ages 10 to 12
Older kids prefer wording that sounds less babyish. Keep it short and let the activity speak for itself.
- “Noah is turning 10. Join us for laser tag and pizza on Saturday, November 7, 3-5pm, at Zone Arena. Drop-off and pickup at the front entrance.”
- “Sleepover for Ella’s 11th! Saturday, March 21, from 6pm. Pickup Sunday at 10am, 5 Linden Way. Bring a sleeping bag and pillow.”
- “Lily is 12 and wants a craft afternoon with her friends. Sunday, May 17, 2-4:30pm, at The Art Room. All materials provided.”
For birthdays beyond 12, including teen milestones, see our birthday invitation wording examples.
Drop-off and pickup lines
- “This is a drop-off party. Pickup is at 4pm.”
- “Parents are welcome to stay for coffee.”
- “Please stay with children under 5.”
- “If someone else is collecting your child, please let us know.”
- “Please share a phone number we can reach you on during the party.”
Allergy and food lines
- “Pizza and cake will be served. Please tell us about any allergies when you reply.”
- “We are keeping the party nut-free, as one of our guests has a nut allergy.”
- “Light snacks only, so please feed little ones before they arrive.”
- “If your child has dietary needs, we are happy to provide an alternative.”
Siblings, gifts and what to bring
- Siblings: “Siblings are welcome.” or “Due to space, we can only host invited guests.”
- No gifts: “Your company is the only present we need.”
- Book swap: “Instead of a gift, bring a wrapped book for our book swap.”
- Clothing: “Wear clothes that can get messy.” “Bring a coat, we will be outside.”
Planning the rest of the day? Our guide to how to plan a kids’ birthday party covers guest numbers, food and activities week by week. You can also browse our kids’ party invitations to see your wording on a design.
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Learn more about Invite JamFrequently asked questions
- What should I write on my child’s birthday invitation?
- Include your child’s name and age, the date, a start and end time, the address, whether parents should stay, any food or allergy notes, what to wear or bring, and a reply-by date.
- How do you word a drop-off birthday party invitation?
- Say it plainly near the time: “This is a drop-off party. Pickup is at 4pm.” Ask parents to share a phone number and to tell you if someone else is collecting their child.
- How do you ask about allergies on a party invitation?
- Add one line: “Please tell us about any allergies when you reply.” If you are collecting replies online, add an allergy question to the RSVP form so every answer is in one place.
- How do you say no siblings on a kids’ party invitation?
- Keep it short and give the reason: “Due to space, we can only host invited guests. Thank you for understanding.” Address the invitation to the invited child by name.
- How long should a kids’ birthday party be?
- One to two hours suits most ages. Parties for toddlers work best at around an hour and a half, while older children can enjoy two to three hours, or longer for a sleepover.